05/04/2014 § Leave a comment
A summary of a message presented at Akron Alliance Fellowship Church, May 4, 2014:
2 Corinthians 2:14
But thanks be to God, who always puts us on display in Christ and through us spreads the aroma of the knowledge of Him in every place.
Believers in Jesus Christ are reminded by Scripture to be confident in their faith, but often, this is easier said than done. Perhaps you have experienced difficulties or setbacks in your faith because of life’s circumstances. These are completely normal and understandable. You can be a believer in Jesus Christ and experience different degrees of hardship. In these experiences, there is a lack of confidence in your circumstances.
Where does this lack of confidence come from?
- First, it begins with a loss of focus on Jesus Christ
- Next, it continues with doubt–something is not right, and now you’re not sure about the outcome of the situation
- Finally, the loss of focus and the doubt is stirred up with a potion of fear.
A loss of focus is a huge distraction in your walk of faith.
Doubt is the opposite of faith.
Fear creeps in when faith is absent.
In order to get back to a place where faith can be placed at the forefront, you need to overcome the greatest obstacle that perpetuates doubt, and that is fear.
Fear comes from the available information, or a lack of information, which leads to a perception or anticipation of a negative outcome.
There are many different ways that fear become manifest in the life of a believer. Here is a top ten list that encapsulates how fear can overshadow a person’s life:
10. Losing your freedom
09. The unknown
Fear is a real emotion, but it is debilitating to your faith.
The result of fear, in your doubt and lack of focus, is a believer who is outside of the place where God wants you to be. It’s a place that is unsettling at best, and dreadful at worst.
Fear is not a switch that one can turn on and turn off. In our flesh, there is no such thing as an absence of fear. Fear is like a wound that needs ointment and a bandage in order to promote healing.
In order to overcome fear, which allows us to combat doubt and regain focus on Jesus Christ, there is a remedy. Fear must be suppressed with a reliance on God’s Word and the power of the Holy Spirit.
Fear must be met with courage.
Courage is the essence of a believer that drives the necessary change to promote growth of your IMAGE in Jesus Christ and the ability, in spite of any life difficulty or circumstance, to proclaim the good news for the Great Commission.
God reminds you of the importance of being courageous. It takes your mind off of the things that you are fearful of. He gives us many reminders and words of encouragement throughout Scripture.
2 Timothy 1:6-7
6 Therefore, I remind you to keep ablaze the gift of God that is in you through the laying on of my hands. 7 For God has not given us a spirit of fearfulness, but one of power, love, and sound judgment.
Be strong and courageous; don’t be terrified or afraid of them. For it is the Lord your God who goes with you; He will not leave you or forsake you.”
“Haven’t I commanded you: be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”
Fear is anxiety and can be driven by impatience. God wants you to be patient.
Wait for the Lord;
be strong and courageous.
Wait for the Lord.
God wants you to experience rest and comfort as you rely upon the Spirit to overcome fear.
I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. You will have suffering in this world. Be courageous! I have conquered the world.”
Fear is the absence of trust. God reminds us to trust in Him. Leave the results of your anxiety at His feet.
5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
and do not rely on your own understanding;
6 think about Him in all your ways,
and He will guide you on the right paths.
The Lord is my light and my salvation—
whom should I fear?
The Lord is the stronghold of my life—
of whom should I be afraid?
There’s no need to go it alone. There’s strength and courage in numbers. Stay in a fellowship.
27 Just one thing: Live your life in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or am absent, I will hear about you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind, working side by side for the faith that comes from the gospel, 28 not being frightened in any way by your opponents. This is a sign of destruction for them, but of your deliverance—and this is from God.
Trusting God in your fear leads to confidence that there will be a good result…but even more than this…that God will be glorified.
15 Now if you’re ready, when you hear the sound of the horn, flute, zither, lyre, harp, drum, and every kind of music, fall down and worship the statue I made. But if you don’t worship it, you will immediately be thrown into a furnace of blazing fire—and who is the god who can rescue you from my power?”
16 Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego replied to the king, “Nebuchadnezzar, we don’t need to give you an answer to this question. 17 If the God we serve exists, then He can rescue us from the furnace of blazing fire, and He can rescue us from the power of you, the king. 18 But even if He does not rescue us, we want you as king to know that we will not serve your gods or worship the gold statue you set up.”
What amazing courage! But make no mistake about it…your courage is far from your own strength. God provides the ability for you to overcome fear and be strong in Him.
11 I don’t say this out of need, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. 12 I know both how to have a little, and I know how to have a lot. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being content—whether well fed or hungry, whether in abundance or in need. 13 I am able to do all things through Him who strengthens me.
25 Don’t fear sudden danger
or the ruin of the wicked when it comes,
26 for the Lord will be your confidence
and will keep your foot from a snare.
8 But you, Israel, My servant,
Jacob, whom I have chosen,
descendant of Abraham, My friend—
9 I brought you from the ends of the earth
and called you from its farthest corners.
I said to you: You are My servant;
I have chosen you and not rejected you.
10 Do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be afraid, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you; I will help you;
I will hold on to you with My righteous right hand.
God offers Himself to you for comfort, healing, preservation and love, which overcomes all fear. He is your confidence. He is our confidence that we will succeed in any difficult situation or circumstance.
His love overcomes fear.
1 John 4:17-19
17 In this, love is perfected with us so that we may have confidence in the day of judgment, for we are as He is in this world. 18 There is no fear in love; instead, perfect love drives out fear, because fear involves punishment. So the one who fears has not reached perfection in love. 19 We love because He first loved us.
Copyright © Melvin Gaines
10/14/2013 § Leave a comment
As an adult with children, I always wanted the best for each of them as they grew up, and I often imagined how life would be for them once they became adults. All loving parents want to see our children succeed in their education, and once they get older, their careers and even finding the perfect spouse. Each of these are significant life milestones, and in all of them, it is our hope that our children look to the Lord in all of their life choices and decisions. That is easily the most gratifying result that we want to see from our children…living a life that is holy and pleasing to God.
Teach a youth about the way he should go;
even when he is old he will not depart from it.
Unfortunately, the challenge that parents of a Christian household often face with their children is far from what they envisioned when they raised them with the instruction of what it is to follow Jesus Christ. At one point, it appeared that a son or daughter was obedient and responsive to the instruction, but one day, something must have happened where the tide had turned. The turn occurs because our children possess the very same thing that we possess…free will. They have the ability to make choices, both good and bad ones, in the same way we do. We remember how we came up over the years and the choices that we made, and we don’t want our children to make the same mistakes. Our prayers have been, and will continue to be, that our children’s good choices will far outweigh the bad ones, and that the bad ones will not be as costly to them. The proverb of teaching the child is true…the child doesn’t forget what they have learned. It is not just your desire, but also God’s desire for the child to remember what was learned, to understand it, and to make the decision to completely live for Jesus Christ.
1 John 4:16
And we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and the one who remains in love remains in God, and God remains in him.
What a blessing it is when our child, who is obedient to the Lord, grows with this same philosophy as an adult! When our child veers into a different direction–one that is contrary to living a Christlike existence, we are deeply affected because it leaves the parents with feelings of helplessness, and even regrets that perhaps something could have been done differently that would somehow have made the child behave differently. The reality is that a child raised in a Christlike household may or may not follow that same teaching as an adult, and parents will beat themselves up with regret and blame that doesn’t change the behavior. This message is about those children who keep parents up at night. In moments like this, it is very important to remember God’s love and grace, and look at ways to manage our interaction with the wayward child.
First, before you interact with your child, you need to examine your own behavior. You cannot effectively minister to other people, let alone your child, unless you are paying very close attention to your level of obedience to Jesus Christ. You need to go through a self-examination of your life and your attitude. This allows you to truly listen to what the Spirit is saying to you and be aware of the leanings of the Spirit. It starts with the most important commandments as noted by Jesus Christ:
34 When the Pharisees heard that He had silenced the Sadducees, they came together. 35 And one of them, an expert in the law, asked a question to test Him: 36 “Teacher, which command in the law is the greatest?”
37 He said to him, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. 38 This is the greatest and most important command.
39 The second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself. 40 All the Law and the Prophets depend on these two commands.”
In order to love your wayward child (and you do love the child even though there are times when you are disappointed or angered by his or her behavior), you need to draw upon the basic principles of your faith in Jesus Christ–loving the Lord with all of your heart, soul and mind, and loving your neighbor as yourself. Both of these commands of Jesus Christ have a profound effect upon your life and the consistency of your behavior. Others, who observe your behavior, and especially your child will see your love for God. What is the one thing that you do that can have an adverse effect on your child and how he or she responds to you? It’s your inconsistent behavior. As a prime example, you can’t address the sin of another person without addressing your own sin.
1 “Do not judge, so that you won’t be judged. 2 For with the judgment you use, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
3 Why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye but don’t notice the log in your own eye? 4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and look, there’s a log in your eye? 5 Hypocrite! First take the log out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.
Let’s look at the context of this verse when coupled with the second great commandment that Jesus mentions in Matthew 22:39 (Love your neighbor as yourself) with where He draws it from in Leviticus 19:
9 “When you reap the harvest of your land, you are not to reap to the very edge of your field or gather the gleanings of your harvest. 10 You must not strip your vineyard bare or gather its fallen grapes. Leave them for the poor and the foreign resident; I am Yahweh your God.
11 “You must not steal. You must not act deceptively or lie to one another. 12 You must not swear falsely by My name, profaning the name of your God; I am Yahweh.
13 “You must not oppress your neighbor or rob him. The wages due a hired hand must not remain with you until morning. 14 You must not curse the deaf or put a stumbling block in front of the blind, but you are to fear your God; I am Yahweh.
15 “You must not act unjustly when deciding a case. Do not be partial to the poor or give preference to the rich; judge your neighbor fairly. 16 You must not go about spreading slander among your people; you must not jeopardize your neighbor’s life; I am Yahweh.
17 “You must not harbor hatred against your brother. Rebuke your neighbor directly, and you will not incur guilt because of him. 18 Do not take revenge or bear a grudge against members of your community, but love your neighbor as yourself; I am Yahweh.
This part of the message is very important when it comes to the nature of developing a loving and consistent interpersonal relationship with your child. God’s love is always to be the foundation of your interaction with anyone, let alone your child. You must remove any hint of hatred or animosity in your dealings with your wayward child, for it is when they see your love and concern it paves the way for your ability to minister to them in the truth of God’s Word when the Spirit provides the opportunity to do so. Your sin and transgressions that God commanded the people of Israel not to do in Leviticus 19 can block your ministry to the child and show you as less credible in their eyes.
…let us draw near (to Jesus Christ) with a true heart in full assurance of faith, our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed in pure water.
Another important point to consider here in this relationship is to take the focus off of yourself, which essentially means you need to give yourself a break. What does this mean?
1. Acknowledge that you did the best you could as a parent. You weren’t perfect, but you presented the gospel message to your child, and they heard what was necessary for them to effectively discern right from wrong. There’s no good energy spent in regret over the past or what might have been.
2. Acknowledge that you can’t control their behavior. The choices the child makes are on the child alone, and not you.
When you decide that you did everything you could as a parent and that you can’t do anything about your child’s behavior, it comes down to taking the humble approach and doing the most important thing that you can do for your child…prayer. Your communication to God is the natural response when God communicates with you through His Word and through His Spirit. Your prayers make a difficult situation bearable and put your faith and trust in God in action. He hears your prayers in the midst of your affliction and provides, first and foremost, peace to your soul and rest for your body.
7 I will rejoice and be glad in Your faithful love
because You have seen my affliction.
You have known the troubles of my life
8 and have not handed me over to the enemy.
You have set my feet in a spacious place.
28 “Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 All of you, take up My yoke and learn from Me, because I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for yourselves.
30 Youths may faint and grow weary,
and young men stumble and fall,
31 but those who trust in the Lord
will renew their strength;
they will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary;
they will walk and not faint.
Now if any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives to all generously and without criticizing, and it will be given to him.
This endeavor is not a sprint…it is a marathon. Your in it for the long haul because you want the best for your child, and you don’t know or when God is going to reach your child to change the behaviors and, eventually, the outcome. This will always be part of God’s mysterious ways that He draws people near to Himself, but always remember that He loves your child more than you ever could, and He wants the very best for all of us.
10 For this is what the Lord says: “When 70 years for Babylon are complete, I will attend to you and will confirm My promise concerning you to restore you to this place. 11 For I know the plans I have for you”—this is the Lord’s declaration—“plans for your welfare, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
I deliberately included verse 10 here to show that even as God has plans for our hope in the future, we need to remember that our time and God’s timing can be much different. In our prayers, we can certainly pray for change, but we must respect God’s timing in everything, including how He acts as a change agent for our wayward child.
An important aspect of your ministry to your wayward child is how you interact with your child. No matter how you feel about what he or she is doing, you are to always show yourself to be open for the child to come home or to have social time. You don’t condone their sin, and you establish ground rules as to behavior if the child is there for a period of time, but they should always see the love of Christ in you when they look at you. Love the child in the midst of your disappointment. This is admittedly tough to do, but with God’s help, you can do it, and you can shine for Christ while doing it. You are to regard your child in the same way God sees you (1 Samuel 16:7b – “Man does not see what the Lord sees, for man sees what is visible, but the Lord sees the heart.”).
Understandably, your ongoing prayers for help and guidance in maintaining the proper attitude will go a long way in this area. Pray for the right words and the boldness to remain steadfast in righteousness.
When a man’s ways please the Lord,
He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.
In the same way that you are looking for the right words to say, keep your communication open with your child. Send emails and texts to keep in touch when you can (texts are brief, while emails will have more substance). Take an interest in the things that interest them (as long as they are not contrary to living for Christ). Have lunch or dinner with them, and keep the conversation as light as possible. All of this is to build upon your relationship. Even though this is your child, it is still an adult-adult communication that is taking place. Keep your focus on the love of Christ throughout your communication, and keep the lines open, free and clear.
All of this effort is to keep the focus on the saving grace and love of Jesus Christ.
1 John 4:16
And we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and the one who remains in love remains in God, and God remains in him.
7 So Jesus said again, “I assure you: I am the door of the sheep. 8 All who came before Me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep didn’t listen to them. 9 I am the door. If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved and will come in and go out and find pasture. 10 A thief comes only to steal and to kill and to destroy. I have come so that they may have life and have it in abundance.
In order for you to keep the door open for the child to enter the door for Christ, you have to provide the path for the child to pursue Him at the appointed time. We have the blessed assurance that Jesus Christ will welcome your wayward child at a moment’s notice. That day will indeed be a day of praise and thanksgiving. Keep your child before the Lord and bathe the matter in prayer, but remember to seek Him with righteousness in everything that you do, and God will hear your appeals.
17 The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears,
and delivers them from all their troubles.
18 The Lord is near the brokenhearted;
He saves those crushed in spirit.
29 The Lord is far from the wicked,
but He hears the prayer of the righteous.
30 Bright eyes cheer the heart;
good news strengthens the bones.
Copyright © Melvin Gaines
04/17/2012 § Leave a comment
Spring Break 2012
Our Annual Relationship Conference Series continues with discussion about how God speaks in His special way to you:
Hosted by Melvin Gaines
God’s Love Languages for Your Life
A special weekend retreat for everyone where you can rest, relax, renew and recharge!
Everyone has at least one love language. Do you know yours? Marriage counselor Dr. Gary Chapman first introduced The Five Love Languages almost 20 years ago. Today, love languages are not just for married couples…they are also relevant to you and your own personal relationship with Jesus Christ! Knowing how you can best hear God speaking to you will only help you to grow and understand more about your relationship! Our seminar will explore all of these languages and give you insight into your communication with God that you may not have realized before! With your participation, this relationship seminar promises to be a fun, relaxing and fulfilling experience! Singles and married couples are welcome!
Friday, April 20 and Saturday, April 21, 2012
Hampton Inn, Stow OH
4331 Lakepointe Corporate Drive • 330.945.4160
Special room rate for overnight stay only $79.00 plus tax. When booking your room ask for the Akron Alliance Fellowship Church special rate. Please book your room reservation today (maximum of 4 guests per room). A free hot breakfast is available for hotel guests. Free internet • pool • fitness center • comfortable amenities • newly remodeled • restaurants nearby
For start times and additional information, call 234.206.0345.
11/12/2011 § Leave a comment
When I’m called upon to present a sermon, I always pray for guidance as to what will be presented on the appointed date. Even in the midst of prayerful consideration, sometimes the subject or topic turns out to be difficult to execute in the form of a message. More often than not, the messages that I have presented are related to issues of life or circumstances that guide me in my writing. This message is guided by more of a mindset than any one topic or issue. The mindset comes from being in a bit of a spiritual dry spell. It is a learning experience, and, as I have learned, it’s not a bad thing, either.
First, all of us have been through moments of what I would call a spiritual dry spell. It is not necessarily an experience that one would go out of their way to be in, nor is it something to look forward to. The dry spell is the perception that you are somewhere within a great moment in your spiritual life and a lousy moment where you experience all-out defeat. The phrase “dry spell” implies a period where there is a thirst for something, or a need for a quenching of that thirst. You can fill in the blank for what this means to you, but without putting words in your mouth, I describe a dry spell as a period where you’re moving through life, coming and going, but nothing extraordinary seems to be happening. Again, this is a perception more than it is reality. Things SEEM to be rather ordinary. If you were to stop and pay attention to the different elements of your dry spell, you might be surprised at what you find, or perhaps you may not even realize how you, in your ho-hum moments, are actually still performing in a Christ-like manner as others observe your behavior or actions.
If you get nothing else out of this, please note that a spiritual dry spell is an opportunity for growth and for learning…learning about yourself, learning more about Jesus Christ and the workings of the Holy Spirit, and learning about how can respond effectively when things don’t seem quite right. There’s no special trigger that causes these dry spells, but the foundation of a dry spell is a lack of spiritual moisture…not necessarily like that of a desert or wilderness experience, but it should be noted that the symptoms of the experience may be similar, which we will discuss in a moment. A dry spell may be, for example, evidentiary in your daily experiences moving so fast and furious that your body, and especially your mind are traveling faster than you can keep up with the pace of life. When this occurs, your spiritual experiences can get lost in all of the movement. Even the most saintly believers in Jesus Christ need to adapt to the daily challenges of life. Now, please understand that this is a unique experience for me, and it may not apply to everyone. In fact, a dry spell can mean different things to different people. What all believers do have in common, however, is that each of us has an understanding of what it is to have faith and trust in God through Jesus Christ. We also know the importance of trusting in the end results and not rest in the immediacy or difficulty of the moment. This is especially true for those of us when going through a spiritual dry spell. Faith and trust in Jesus Christ means that we serve a God that never changes. He is always consistent and always present in all areas of our life.
Your life should be free from the love of money. Be satisfied with what you have, for He Himself has said, I will never leave you or forsake you. 6Therefore, we may boldly say:
The Lord is my helper;
I will not be afraid.
What can man do to me?
The key to this verse is always remembering it to be the truth, even when things seem completely crazy.
If you haven’t already picked up on this, you may see that a spiritual dry spell is often rooted in the attitude of the host. Sometimes we’re not at our best when our attitude is not so great. It’s little wonder, of course, that your perception of the world changes when your attitude about life changes; therefore, a spiritual dry spell may require an attitude adjustment. That is not meant to be a negative comment, but the result is still the same…we need to be mindful of the things that affect our outlook on life and pay attention to what God has done to bring us where we are today, and that He is without limits and has no restrictions as to where we can go as long as we have faith and trust in Him and in His Word.
The LORD answered Moses, “Is the LORD‘s power limited? You will see whether or not what I have promised will happen to you.”
In fact, even in the midst of our dryness, our faith and trust in God surpass our limits of human reasoning.
“For My thoughts are not your thoughts,
and your ways are not My ways.”
[This is] the LORD’s declaration.
Whether you are experiencing a spiritual dry spell or if things don’t seem to be going right, it is always a good idea to do a self-assessment as to what is not quite right with your attitude and take the steps to make it right. This would apply in virtually every area of our spiritual life. There must always be the focus and approach as to how we can best be obedient to God and His Word, and remain in His will.
First, it takes recognition that something needs to change in your daily routine. How often have you found that you have done something that is not necessarily helpful to you, and yet you continue to do the same thing from time to time. The only way that you will stop doing the same thing is to make a point to make a change. How true is this when it comes to sin, for example? The Holy Spirit will readily point out when you sin, and you will readily sin again unless you make it a point to pray for strength and seek the Lord to resist temptation to commit that sin.
I said, “I will guard my ways
so that I may not sin with my tongue;
I will guard my mouth with a muzzle
as long as the wicked are in my presence.”
10 I have sought You with all my heart;
don’t let me wander from Your commands.
11 I have treasured Your word in my heart
so that I may not sin against You.
12 LORD, may You be praised;
teach me Your statutes.
Making a change requires the need to bring oneself out of the malaise—and taking the action steps to implement the change.
Next, let’s examine those action steps that need to be taken. It’s important for each of us, once we recognize the need to change, to allow for the Holy Spirit to speak to you and allow Him to be your Compass—your Guide for direction. The steps that may occur for each individual may be different, but the essentials for each person involve the following:
- God’s Word in the form of daily devotions and readings
- Prayer to God to reflect upon what God is saying to you
In this, you will see the importance of making sure that your attitude is not being compounded with issues of sin or spiritual indifference. This goes back to what the verse of Psalm 119:11 presents as you allow God’s Word to move you out of your spiritual dry spell. Please note that this needs to be a consistent effort that should occur over a period of days, and perhaps even weeks, in order to truly see some progress.
Note that the devotions and prayer time force you to slow down long enough to hear God speaking to you through His Word. Your best “listening” experiences are when you are not being distracted by the noises of the world.
There are key elements of your action plans that will help you to overcome your spiritual dry spell. These keys to success are simple to remember if not always easy to implement:
Now faith is the reality of what is hoped for, the proof of what is not seen.
24 They came and woke Him up, saying, “Master, Master, we’re going to die!” Then He got up and rebuked the wind and the raging waves. So they ceased, and there was a calm. 25 He said to them, “Where is your faith?”
Never underestimate the importance of faith in your action plans. Faith is what will move you forward. It is a healthy dependence upon Christ, and at the same time, you live day by day in confidence.
“If you have faith the size of a mustard seed,” the Lord said, “you can say to this mulberry tree, ‘Be uprooted and planted in the sea,’ and it will obey you.
Set your minds on what is above, not on what is on the earth.
1 How happy is the man
who does not follow the advice of the wicked,
or take the path of sinners,
or join a group of mockers!
2 Instead, his delight is in the LORD’s instruction,
and he meditates on it day and night.
3 He is like a tree planted beside streams of water
that bears its fruit in season
and whose leaf does not wither.
Whatever he does prospers.
Rejoice in hope; be patient in affliction; be persistent in prayer.
7 Be silent before the LORD and wait expectantly for Him;
do not be agitated by one who prospers in his way,
by the man who carries out evil plans.
8 Refrain from anger and give up [your] rage;
do not be agitated—it can only bring harm.
9 For evildoers will be destroyed,
but those who put their hope in the LORD
will inherit the land.
In our effort to be patient and wait on the Lord, He knows that our weaknesses and intercedes for each of us. We are comforted in His ever-present nature.
For I know the plans I have for you” —[this is] the LORD‘s declaration—”plans for [your] welfare, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
1 Peter 3:14-17
14 But even if you should suffer for righteousness, you are blessed. Do not fear what they fear or be disturbed, 15 but set apart the Messiah as Lord in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you. 16 However, do this with gentleness and respect, keeping your conscience clear, so that when you are accused, those who denounce your Christian life will be put to shame. 17 For it is better to suffer for doing good, if that should be God’s will, than for doing evil.
So we must not get tired of doing good, for we will reap at the proper time if we don’t give up.
In conclusion, the ability to emerge from your spiritual dry spell requires the following:
- Knowing that you need to change your routine and take action
- Seek God’s Word and pray consistently for direction
- Respond to God’s direction with faith, focus, patience, and persistence
Your efforts will reap the rewards of God’s blessings as you strengthen your relationship with Jesus Christ, grow in Him, and learn from the experience.
Copyright © Melvin Gaines. All rights reserved.
09/25/2011 § Leave a comment
Except for some tweets and posts on the Akron Alliance Fellowship Church blog, I’ve been quiet on my own blog pages for a little while. It’s been a busy summer—busier than I can remember for the summer months—and my wife and I were overdue for a break for a couple of weekends in September. With the break, there was time to reflect on the blessings that my wife, my family and I have, and how God has been more than evident in His presence in our lives.
It has become more evident that change is, more than ever, a prominent part of life. There has been unexpected change at my workplace (new boss), my wife’s workplace (yep, new boss), and at church (an elder resignation). Even with all of this, there is still cause for praise and worship for how God has given us the grace and ability to manage all of the changes and the surprising events. When my wife and I have talked about this, we readily agree that we don’t care much for change, let alone sudden ones. While we’re both thankful to be working and making a living, the changes are still unsettling and can be downright stressful! It’s often necessary for us to bring our work home and use “downtime” to still be productive and keep pace with everything that comes our way.
With everything moving so quickly, I have discovered that we need to remain continually focused on God and His Word every day, and remain open to the words and direction of the Holy Spirit everywhere we go, whether it is at work or in the car or at the grocery store. In fact, there is not a moment when we should feel comfortable without the input of the Holy Spirit, especially when things seem to be going well (Psalm 51:11).
When circumstances have taken place that you don’t always understand right away, it is always best to trust God for direction when you are unsure of your response (Psalm 3:5-6, 56:3-4). He is our comfort in the midst of uncertainty.
12/12/2010 § Leave a comment
As the holidays approach every year, first Thanksgiving, and then the Christmas shopping season, you would have to have lived in a cave to have not seen the change in television commercials promoting sales, early hours of bargain hunting, and even stores open on Thanksgiving Day and midnight on Black Friday. The national retailers look to finish strong after a mediocre sales year with a flurry of activity, and they already know that the time and money spent in advertising is going to reach consumers that are ready, willing and able to make excuses to spend money! It’s time to go Christmas shopping to get out of the doldrums. I want to save money, so I need to spend money! You know the drill.
The retailers spend money for advertising because they anticipate that their potential customers will resemble the woman in the red jump suit who is working out at the store lifting packages with one arm as if they are barbells, circling the dates on a calendar in anticipation of Black Friday for an early morning shopping fest while she flexes her muscles. She also screams with delight as she reads the circular loaded with deals. The stores want to see you spend money during the Christmas season as if you are in a state of frenzy. They want shopping fanatics.
A fanatic, by the way, does not mean that you have to have a screw loose or that you are missing a few cards from the deck. A fanatic means that you are a person who has a significant or even extreme amount of enthusiasm for something, such as in politics, or even, of course, religion. We have seen extremism associated with both politics and religion, and most of us know when that extremism goes beyond reasonable sensibilities. This is also evident when we look at fans (which is short for fanatic) of sports teams and the behaviors that are associated with being a fan. Many sports fans will readily associate alcohol with being a fan, and we know that it doesn’t often end well when there is too much booze for sports fans.
I’m a sports fan, for sure. I also love to watch college football, and I also love roller skating, and I’m a big fan of my wife, of course! But all of those subjects, even my wife, have to be viewed from the proper perspective. My passion for life itself must be derived from the one that gives the reason for me to be passionate for life…this is the zeal for Jesus Christ that every Christian should experience.
My point to all of this is that you do not have to be crazy to be a fanatic. You can be a fanatic for Christ, for example, and not be characterized as a Bible Thumper, or as a Holy Roller, or “Goody Two Shoes,” or some other term that implies more of what are perceived as negative character traits than positive ones. You can be a fanatic for Christ by living enthusiastically, positively, and pointedly for all of the things that Christ represents.
Please note that, while I have nothing against the word “fan,” the shortened version of the word “fanatic,” the two words come across with different interpretations. To be a fan of something is OK, such as a fan of a musician or of a sports team, while being a fanatic implies even more of a commitment and a passion for something. Given this conclusion, is your commitment to Christ more of that as a fan, or is it more like a fanatic for Christ?
When you have a healthy relationship with God through Jesus Christ, you can begin to see what it really means to be a fanatic for Christ. Our challenge, especially as we are reminded over and over during the Christmas season about how Jesus is the reason for the season, is to see Christ in such a way where, to the average Christian, He means more to that person than just that of a favorite football team or sports figure…more than a favorite band or artist…more than an actor or performer. The name of Jesus should fire you up in such a way where His name truly is above every name!
How do we capture that zeal, that passion for Christ that is missing at times? The answer is in our relationship with Christ. Our relationship with Christ will determine how we live and breathe for Christ, which others will see in our actions as we live for Christ at a high level. Our life for Christ, in our relationship with Christ, helps us to build and develop relationships with others through Christ, and wins people over to Christ! It is all accomplished through the power of the Holy Spirit, but we must always remember that the Spirit works through the believer that trusts in Him and relies upon His wisdom. The love and trust for Christ is a magnet that attracts others who want to know more about Him directly to you!
To be a fanatic for Jesus Christ requires repetition and practice of an effective Christian lifestyle. It requires practice because we have natural opposition to this effort because of our own fleshly nature, and because Satan does not want us to be successful in this lifestyle. We have to overcome the things that are not healthy for us, especially sin, and move towards the things that create a bond with Jesus Christ.
First, being a fanatic for Christ means that we must forsake sin.
The night is nearly over, and the daylight is near, so let us discard the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. Let us walk with decency, as in the daylight: not in carousing and drunkenness; not in sexual impurity and promiscuity; not in quarreling and jealousy. But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no plans to satisfy the fleshly desires.
Forsaking sin means more than just turning away from it. Our attitude should be the same attitude that God has about sin. He hates it.
For You are not a God who delights in wickedness; evil cannot lodge with You.
Just as God has nothing to do with sin, He also wants us to have the same mindset. Remember, because we are in the flesh, we must have an attitude that hates sin, because our flesh desires it greatly. We can’t have a zeal for Christ if we do not forsake sin.
Next, a fanatic for Christ must have a heart of forgiveness. Just as God has forgiven our sins because of our faith and trust in Him, we also must have a heart of forgiveness for others.
For if you forgive people their wrongdoing, your heavenly Father will forgive you as well. But if you don’t forgive people, your Father will not forgive your wrongdoing.
This includes treating others the way that Christ would have you to treat them, without malice or holding grudges.
And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.
After forsaking sin and having a heart of forgiveness, a person who is a true fanatic for Christ is one who relishes in fellowship. There is a desire to seek out others to share the passion that you are living out in Christ. After all, it is God’s desire that each and every one of us shares the gospel with others (Matthew 28:19-20). Our fellowship in Christ through the Holy Spirit gives us the confidence and the ability to fellowship with others. Your message that you communicate to others is in line with the verses from 1 John 1:3:
1 John 1:3
What we have seen and heard we also declare to you, so that you may have fellowship along with us; and indeed our fellowship is with the Father and with His Son Jesus Christ.
The fanatic for Christ does not chase persons away in fellowship; on the contrary, he or she draws people nearer to where they are comfortable in relationships of friendship. Friendship is what allows for sharing, caring for others, and allowing the Holy Spirit to work deeply in the lives of those who are seeking the Lord.
A quick recap—a person who is a fanatic for Jesus Christ must readily forsake sin, forgive others, fellowship with others, develop friendships, and finally, focus on the strength, direction, and power of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit enables us with the ability to withstand pressures and difficulties, and also fortifies us with energy when it is most needed. Our focus, in order for the Spirit to work through us, is to listen to remain obedient to Jesus Christ’s commands:
If you love Me, you will keep My commandments. And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Counselor to be with you forever.
The Holy Spirit is always available to the believer in Jesus Christ. The more that we focus on the Spirit, the more we learn about the abundant life that we truly have in Jesus Christ. It is that life of abundance that creates the fanatic for the one who loves Jesus and lives for Jesus.
Are you a fanatic for Christ? Is your zeal for the One who gave everything for you? Think about what it truly means to live a life of enthusiasm for your Lord and Savior. It should be a life of passion where you turn away from the things that ruin your fellowship with Christ and trust in His Word.
Copyright © Melvin Gaines. For more content, please see melvingaines.com and melvingaines.blogspot.com.
08/21/2010 § Leave a comment
This past week I had to take part in a court proceeding involving a former employee and the company that I work for. The former employee is suing the company for wrongful termination, and I was her final supervisor when she was terminated. This court proceeding has evolved into a significant undertaking for everyone associated with it, including our Human Resources group, where there has been ongoing gathering of emails, file notes, disciplinary action records and employee appraisals as part of the preparation for this trial.
I was told about three weeks ago that I needed to prepare for a deposition since I was a key witness in what had transpired leading up to the dismissal of the former employee. It is interesting to be on the “defendant” side of a trial. With all of the information gathering and the review of documentation, I had more than enough time to think about the case. I tried to separate my emotional reaction from the facts, but my first impression was that the plaintiff’s attorneys were definitely looking for ways to discredit me and my abilities and capabilities as a supervisor, and I understood that because I was the opponent. The first fifteen minutes of questions that I received during the deposition were much like those in an interview, for they discussed my past experience and my job history. In discovery, the opposition will pull any available information about who you are, and will even do a search on the Internet to see what comes up. In the scope of witness testimony, all of this is fair game.
I didn’t like it, of course, but I had to spend a fair amount of time in preparation for the deposition. I was prepped on the facts of the lawsuit, the questions that would likely be asked, and the possibility that all of this would likely take the majority of the day. All of this preparation and anticipation of being deposed made for a few days of stress and evenings of a lack of rest.
It made me also think about what it would be like to be summoned to appear at a trial pertaining to Christianity—how would I prepare, and what would I say? That is a question for all of us. If you were to be deposed in a trial pertaining to your support or defense of Christianity, how would you fare? I learned a great deal about the deposition process, its level of preparation and the actual event, and my contention is that it is a significant test of your abilities and your energy as you go through the process. Your answers to questions will have an important part of the outcome of the trial. In a like manner, if you were asked questions about your faith and trust in Jesus Christ as your personal Savior, your answers should reflect in a positive manner as to how you are walking with Christ and living for Him.
In order to be able to cut through all of the different religions and thought processes that the world presents to those who are curious about God, it is very important for believers in Jesus Christ to be articulate and well-versed when speaking about faith matters. There is a verse in Jude that addresses believers about this very issue.
Dear friends, although I was eager to write you about our common salvation, I found it necessary to write and exhort you to contend for the faith that was delivered to the saints once for all. For certain men, who were designated for this judgment long ago, have come in by stealth; they are ungodly, turning the grace of our God into promiscuity and denying our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ.
Here, Jude is making the point that all believers have salvation by the grace of Jesus Christ, but it is very important to make a demonstrated effort to contend, or speak up, about their faith to others. When one is a contender, he or she is speaking up in opposition to someone or something. Jude makes the statement to contend for the faith because there was an element of opposition—firmly established deceivers in their midst whose sole purpose was to deny Jesus Christ and to keep people from recognizing and accepting Jesus Christ as Savior.
Finally, be strengthened by the Lord and by His vast strength. Put on the full armor of God so that you can stand against the tactics (or schemes, or tricks) of the Devil. For our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world powers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavens. This is why you must take up the full armor of God, so that you may be able to resist in the evil day, and having prepared everything, to take your stand.
This threat of the forces of evil is ever-present today in that there are many different messages that continually pull unsuspecting people, who are searching for the truth, in many different directions, and most of them are far from the truth of salvation in Jesus Christ. The deception comes in many ways, but the end result is that there is no need to trust Christ as Savior because one believes he or she is good enough to make it to heaven on their own, or there has to be more than one way to be with God other than through Christ. People will forsake God for their own pleasures and desires believing that there is no consequence for their actions, while others will believe that there is no eternal punishment for their life after death. In addition, for the believer who is weak in knowledge and in their faith, deceivers are ready to pull them away to the “flavor-of-the-month” religion that may look and sound good on the surface but turn out to be a disastrous road to destruction.
Those who are believers must not just rest only on God’s Word and claim that it alone speaks for itself. God’s Word is indeed the last word, but today’s world needs more from us as a testimony on behalf of Christ. With all of the mixed messages that come from the ongoing distortion of God’s Word due to contextual errors of interpretation, we need to be on the outlook to stand firm and contend for the faith, and, in doing so, have confidence that what we contend for is the absolute truth—the only truth that leads to one having an eternal destiny with Jesus Christ.
Even though the message of the gospel of Jesus Christ may be ever present today, always remember that the truth is elusive to those who do not know Jesus Christ.
“My kingdom is not of this world,” said Jesus. “If My kingdom were of this world, My servants would fight, so that I wouldn’t be handed over to the Jews. As it is, My kingdom does not have its origin here.”
“You are a king then?” Pilate asked.
“You say that I’m a king,” Jesus replied. “I was born for this, and I have come into the world for this: to testify to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth listens to My voice.”
“What is truth?” said Pilate.
The deception of Satan is effective—it prevents people from seeking the truth of Jesus Christ and asking the question “What is truth?” just as Pilate did, without finding the answer. The truth starts with our message of the love of Jesus Christ. We must step out on our faith and proclaim the gospel of Christ to effectively counter the efforts of Satan.
Going back to my discussion on the deposition process, there are areas of importance that are strikingly similar to how a believer in Christ must make a case in contending for the faith.
First, a witness for Christ must have credibility. In order to be taken seriously as a believer in Jesus Christ, you must live your life in such a way that your statements for Christ will not be called into question. Your life must have evidence of being different than those who live in the world. It is OK to be in the world, for that is our field of harvest for those who need to know Christ, but we are not to live as the world does. If we live as the world does, our testimony for Jesus Christ has no teeth—it lacks credibility. I would not be credible witness for Christ if I lived sinfully and was unrepentant in my behavior. Your effort to win others for Christ begins with an effective testimony as a credible witness.
Next, along with credibility, there must be a presence of Christ in your life as you live in God’s will through the Holy Spirit. The credibility of your outward testimony is reinforced by your actions as you operate in the Spirit.
Wasn’t Abraham our father justified by works when he offered Isaac his son on the altar? You see that faith was active together with his works, and by works, faith was perfected. So the Scripture was fulfilled that says, Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him for righteousness, and he was called God’s friend. You see that a man is justified by works and not by faith alone.
Your true testimony to others is a Christ-like lifestyle, where people can see evidence of your faith as you navigate through a difficult and complex world each day. The attributes of having respectful behavior, even in the midst of your enemies, reflects an attitude that some will not understand, while others will observe your actions in utter amazement and want to know how you manage to live in such a way. When the time is right, the Spirit will give you the words, and the testimony.
After credibility and presence comes preparation. To be an effective witness in a trial requires preparation. In my case, it was a full six hours of questions, reviewing of documents, and role-playing with our attorneys. It was long and tiring, but it was necessary. Without it, I would not have been ready for the questions from the opposing attorney. A believer in Jesus Christ can only remain effective in his testimony with ongoing preparation through prayer and study of God’s Word. We are all still learning and living more about God each and every day, and we will continue to do so until we are no longer living. We can only share our experiences with others on how God has blessed us, kept us, and preserved us for this ministry as long as we remain in fellowship with Him and His Word. We never stop learning about Him and we never stop seeking Him and His truth for as long as we live. This is our life preparation as we can truly share with others the wisdom of God through Jesus Christ and how we can successfully live for Christ—even when the world around us seems to be falling apart. We need to be prepared for whatever comes our way…
2 Timothy 3:12-17
In fact, all those who want to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted. Evil people and imposters will become worse, deceiving and being deceived. But as for you, continue in what you have learned and firmly believed, knowing those from whom you learned, and that from childhood you have known the sacred Scriptures, which are able to instruct you for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is inspired by God and is profitable for teaching, for rebuking, for correcting, for training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.
In our presentation on behalf of Jesus Christ, it is important to focus on the leadings of the Holy Spirit. In a testimony, you need to listen very carefully to the questions of the opposing attorney. You need to be clear with your answers by stating “yes” or “no,” and also speak clearly in order to be well understood by those present, especially the court stenographer. If you are unsure of the question, you can ask the attorney to repeat or rephrase the question, or even ask the court stenographer to read back what was said. All of this requires a lot of focus on what is being said. This is quite an ordeal if your deposition takes five and one-half hours! My point is that your focus on how God leads you is very important in your efforts to lead others to Christ. Focus on the Holy Spirit, who has perfect timing in this area. Your words are ordered through the Spirit, but it is God’s Word that is the key to salvation. Our focus should always be on the power of God’s Word and proclaiming it with confidence:
For I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is God’s power for salvation to everyone who believes, first to the Jew, and also to the Greek. For in it God’s righteousness is revealed from faith to faith, just as it is written: The righteous will live by faith.
Finally, your testimony through the Holy Spirit will always come from the foundation of truth.
“And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Counselor to be with you forever. He is the Spirit of truth. The world is unable to receive Him because it doesn’t see Him or know Him. But you do know Him, because He remains with you and will be in you.”
“When the Spirit of truth comes, He will guide you into all the truth. For He will not speak on His own, but He will speak whatever He hears. He will also declare to you what is to come. He will glorify Me, because He will take from what is Mine and declare it to you. Everything the Father has is Mine. This is why I told you that He takes from what is Mine and will declare it to you.”
When testifying in a court proceeding, you are asked to raise your hand and ‘swear to tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth, so help me God.’ (Yes, they still do that.) Your testimony in a courtroom is to always deal with the facts. The facts are not subject to interpretation. Facts are facts, and the truth is the truth. Your credibility and believability are at stake when you are giving testimony, and truth should always be at the forefront of what is being stated. When it comes to your living testimony of God’s Word, there is no better place to be than in the truth of the gospel and its message.
Your faith is on trial each and every day. Remember that the enemy is counting on those who profess to be followers of Christ to be languishing in their sin and to be ineffective witnesses for Christ. We can no longer afford to be ill prepared for battle. We must operate in the full armor of God with credibility, presence, preparation, focus, and truth. With all of these, in Jesus Christ, we will be victorious in life and in our testimony. Thanks to God for the ability to serve Him in such a mighty way!
Copyright © Melvin Gaines. For more content, please see melvingaines.com and melvingaines.blogspot.com.